BBNaija No Loose Guard housemate, DJ Flow, has revealed the reasons behind ending her decade-long friendship with former pair Ruthie during the reunion show that began airing on June 23, 2025.
When questioned by show host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu about their fallout, DJ Flow explained that she could not engage in conflicts on Ruthie's behalf, a stance she claims they had discussed before entering the show.
"I can have your back and support you, but I don't have to go into a fight with you," DJ Flow stated during the reunion. "We have had a conversation before where she is like, 'Oh, if they are dragging one person on social media, will you respond?' And I was like, 'You know me. You know say I no go respond even if dem dey drag me, I no go respond, not to talk of someone else. It's not my fight; why should I respond?'"
The Final Straw
According to DJ Flow, the breaking point came when Ruthie granted an interview making comments about her that left her disheartened. This public discussion convinced DJ Flow it was time to end their friendship despite their ten-year history.
"I think what really did it for me was the interview she had. When I saw that she did an interview speaking on me, I needed a reason. I needed to understand where she was coming from, and that interview just really did it for me," she explained.
The reality TV star acknowledged that while she still cares for Ruthie and would support her, she has chosen to move on due to irreconcilable differences. She reflected that their BBNaija experience, which was meant to strengthen their bond, ultimately led to the unraveling of their friendship.
"I try not to have regrets, but I just truly believe that as much as I cherish what we had for 10 years, I also have the belief that at the end of the day, we go through life with people, not completely do life with these people," DJ Flow added.
She concluded that the interview "made me realise that I might have love for this person, but I feel like we've gotten to a point in life where we should just go our separate ways and that this person is just not good for my energy anymore, and that's perfectly fine."
The BBNaija S9 Reunion continues to air, with more revelations expected from other housemates in the coming episodes.
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